How can the male relate better with the empowered feminine?
- The Spiritual Hierarchy through Betsy

Dear One,

It lies in knowing the feminine is not less than. Not just knowing in the mind but knowing in the heart. The empowered feminine is strong and enduring, creating and holding space. She creates atmosphere. She allows flow. She takes the speeding train that is male energy – powerful and single minded - and caresses it, molds it, nurtures it. She calms; creating space wherein it can grow and expand instead of racing on a single track through the dark to exhaustion. She is the spiral, He is the line. She is the ball, He is the cube. He is the power, She is the ground. He is the seed, She is the fertile ground. He is the arrow, She is the bow.

You cannot have one without the other. Together they make a complete circuit, a whole, they produce fruit. Realize both exist within you; the Mind and the Heart but also within the entire body mechanic, flesh and blood, bones and tendons, organs and hormones. All of it is an intricate dance of male and female energies. One pushes, one pulls. One releases, one holds. Add to this what you already know about Light and Sound, waves and particles, thoughts and water and cellular structures.

Feeling is held in the heart and one of the first things people learn is to never show their hurt. More so for boys but also for girls as well. How can you enjoy the beauty of Creation if you cannot feel; running away from pain and things you don\'t want to deal with because you fear the floodgates will open and it will never stop. Well, It really never stops if you don\'t confront those things. They will forever be seeping and festering, always coloring your reactions with feelings
out of proportion with the situation. In your efforts to stem this seepage your walls get thicker, higher, colder, darker... do you see where this is going? Eventually your feminine heart energies atrophy. You lose your ability to feel joy, happiness, Light, Love. You feel less and less connected to the FATHER. You lose your sense of purpose. You forget who you are and why you came. Most often it takes a catastrophe to wake people up, to make them realize this is not the way things are supposed to be. Just being awake is not enough. It is but one step. It must be followed with intention, connection, forgiveness, and the realization of what Love really is - the full embrace of the feminine and total surrender to the Creator, the alignment of You with the best the universe has to offer.

The masculine and feminine are not opposites; they are complimentary like peanut butter and jelly, coconut and lime, lox and cream cheese. Each by itself is good, together they are better. (allergies notwithstanding) Some individual discretion in vibrational qualities of various energies is in order as well. Just because it is a feminine energy doesn\'t make it the best one for you. You are searching for the highest vibrational feminine energy in alignment with the Creator\'s will, energy working for the highest good. It\'s easy to see how low level energies can be used for distraction by the darkside or for your self out of avoidance.

Feeling the fully empowered and healed feminine energies is freeing and comforting. There is no mistaking their higher vibrational qualities. They are equal to their male counterpart and they work in tandem.

The male energies have been manipulated and bred to be dominant for so long that they have run amuck with destruction, chaos and excessive powering; the drive to have it all at any cost. Anything less was, well, less. The feminine energies have also been manipulated, bred and
choked out for so long that anything remotely soft, comforting, beautiful is stomped on. \"Don\'t want that weak, needy, clingy, sissy type around here.\" In an effort to stand toe to toe with the guys the women denied themselves their innate abilities to nurture, comfort, create. It was all according to plan, drive out the feminine and you separate the people - separate from themselves, each other, and most of all from the Creator. Separate the people and you can conquer them, keep them slaves. They are lost, bereft, without a paddle. They give away
their power clinging to wants and should haves instead of seeing the here and now. All for one and none for all.

That was then, now enter the empowered and healed feminine, ready to stand in her own power, a leader in her own right, bringing infinite Love, compassion, and balance. This rings with a truth the heart identifies with yet the mind is still so programmed and under the influence of the matrix thinking that it is very hard to see and accept the positive balancing that opening up to it brings. This is the work, yet work is probably the wrong word as what is required is to just BE, Accept, Embrace that which has been lost for so long. Jump off the cliff, take the plunge, and immerse yourself. Let it envelope you. Know and feel the Love that flows from the Creator and through you. Through you it can expand and reach others as you let the feminine work through and
with you. This is no loss of masculinity and even in the female she must embrace the power that comes from the male. It is a unifying and balancing of self to the way things were meant to be. To the highest vibrations of Creation\'s intent. The two, the space and the seed, the compassion and the force, the Light and the Sound. Together enter wholeness. The Creator\'s dream fulfilled.

Knowing these things we must now look to the proper balance of things and how they should be. It could be conceived that the male is raw potential and the female is the catalyst, the female holding space and nurturing the male seed. The true empowered female essence is the
foundation, the support, the creator of space to aid the male to grow, form, and become. It is through the feminine that you can feel for from her comes the abilities of nurture, compassion, empathy - the heart energies. The male brings structure, mechanics, knowledge - the mental
energies. Without the heart energies to balance the mental energies things turn to domination and chaos, power struggles and greed. You might say the female keeps the male civilized. Yet too the male helps give the female shape and focus. We have said many times that one needs
to stop with the mind. Stop over-thinking, stop forcing things to fit a preconceived box. Open the heart, flow with love and feeling. Things must swing back to the other side before becoming fully balanced. Grasp fully the feelings of the moment. Be in the moment, not worrying of the future or lost in the past. The only thing you can touch is this very moment. This is the moment you need to listen. NOT you should have listened. NOT you will listen. Just now in this moment and it is always this moment. Tomorrow never comes and yesterday is already gone.

The men must realize that their maleness is not forfeited by this, that they are still needed and are appreciated. Those that open their hearts and allow the feminine to flow will be stronger for it.
Interaction with females in the flesh will need to be tempered by vibrational quality. See them with deep understanding and as sisters and mothers. Men can aid in women\'s abilities to reclaim their power by showing love and respect thereby reflecting the feminine back to them. Be willing to have them lead. Encourage it even. Be willing to listen, reverse the usual roles or not as may be fitting for anyone\'s particular mission. Just as these times bring outward physical signs of upheaval so too will there be internal upheavals. It is the process of breaking down the barriers. The more hearts open, the more people gather and speak their truth with the highest intention in alignment with the Creators will the easier it all becomes. Each will help the other rise just by
virtue of vibrational energy. This then echo\'s out like water ripples ...

So be it

with loving guidance
RAJ, HARENE, and the Spiritual Hierarchy of Nebadon



Working with the female aspect – Heart: http://www.4truthseekers.org/articles/channeling_lesson_12_working_with_the_heart.php

Working with the male aspect – Mind:

http://www.4truthseekers.org/articles/channeling_lesson_11_working_with_the_mind.php

2008-08-02